The wonderful levels of love.....or at least my ideas on it.....
You can love family, you can love friends, and you can romantically love people. I think you can love more than one person romantically but you love different aspects. You may love one guy because he's _____, ______, and ______ but once you figure out it's not enough or what you really want you alter your love. You don't see that person as long term potential so you move on to find that one guy out there who is your soul mate: the one guy that fills all the blanks. I don't think the previous guy or you lied about loving one another. It's just not the match that's suppose to happen. You can love numerous people but only one person matches perfectly.
Love is hard to figure out but I garentee you that putting your heart out on the line (even if it's going to be hurt a million times) is worth it because you not only learn something from each experience but when you find the right guy all the pain will have been worth it. How do you know what you want if you never experienced all the bad stuff??? You'll appreciate that love when it comes because of the love you lost.
Everyone will figure love out in due time but until then I think hope, in love, rather than doubt is the best way to go. At least it can keep you smiling until you find the guy you're ment to find! So to anyone that reads this. Throw your heart out there. And when it gets stomped on and thrown around carelessly, because it will, just remember it'll be worth it in the end when you find the right one.
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